The topic of battered, maybe, but I’m at a loss and looking for advice. Before marriage was a private “odnushka”, after the wedding and lived there for 4 years. Husband, as usual, came with a removable panty and lots of ambition. All this time I somehow saved the money, which was enough in the end on the first mortgage payment. Chose the new building, arrange a mortgage (the part of the husband was limited to signing of papers), I put the one on sale. As soon as I got the money for it, all they were allowed for a partial repayment of the mortgage. In the end, there are very few, per month is charged is not a tangible amount.
Recently handed over apartment, it is necessary to make repairs. Given that I spent to buy it, my husband was invited to do so far. And began: “you choose expensive materials, can be something easier”, “I’ll look for a cheaper team, we need to save”. My argument is that the apartment is purchased for the space by the standards of our city money on MY funds, so repair it is necessary to do normal, not obojchiki vinyl with linoleum, considering that it is the same owner (apartment, of course, because of the mortgage 50/50). All complicated by the fact that we’re always fighting with collecting things and his periodic escapes to mom (which, by the way, on every corner is bursting, “kids are great, I bought the apartment”). Let not the children well done, and I worked my butt off for several years. Anticipating the reasoning,
I will say that all this time, household costs were equal, I just saved the money, and he had them to go down. Well, I pay a little more. Here is the question : what to do? Offered to make repairs for my money and to transfer the property to me, Gunda. And as it turns out, he’s 3 penny invest, and will become the full owner.
Given our difficult relationship, I would not want in the event of divorce to give him half, or God forbid, to waste your time