Yesterday decided to leave her husband, which the bun-pinky. The relationship lasted 4 years, there were good moments and bad. I helped him in everything, supported. Some of the things they closed their eyes, some overreacted. And swearing and put up like everyone else. But the last straw was his dismissive attitude to me.We had a joint event where he publicly snarky and insulting, “teasing”, and after all left drunk with friends.
Now he faces a huge fine and dismissal from work. (He was drunk driving), But the point is that the whole night, he danced, had fun( as I do) , but I tried him to pay attention , as well as other couples that were with us. It from me waved. ( at all).And at this moment in my head was “click”.I understand that the relationship is toxic and not bring me joy. Lately I have only bad and he doesn’t want to change anything. And I made the decision to leave him. Going home without him, he continued the celebration with all the unfortunate consequences. ( deprivation of rights, fines, dismissal). And now the mother-in-law accuses me that I leave them in difficult minute. By the way, the husband did not even apologize for his behavior. It turns out coincidence. We fight , I make a decision and he gets into this W/PU.What to do , tell me? I decided for all ( in terms of relationships) , though, and I love it. I must say, he is a good man, kind , loved me very much, just such a terrible character + the inability to drink. That is ,purely human, I feel sorry for him.
There is the idea and working on a plan to help him not to lose work, but it will cost money. So I think what to do? To help and to disperse peacefully or to not care about the opinion and leave it? Thank you all for the Advice.