♀Want to talk to, to listen to a second opinion. I am 19 years old and I’m pregnant. About to be born son, but my boyfriend is a drug addict. He cheats all the time, brings to tears and tantrums, leaves and disappears for a few hours. For pregnancy two times I was in the hospital, at this time, he naturally had fun, didn’t even come once. Why I put up with it? Because I love this man, and I understand that he is a good man, who unfortunately became addicted.
He has a bad circle of friends, all “friends” are also used. When he is not seen and calls up to them, we are fine. He is very gentle to me, for my son all bought. A lot of work, in the evenings we laugh and watch soap operas. I often go to the cinema/café. But all of this until, until he will drink. Then I don’t recognize him. In moments of despair, he genuinely asks me for help, support, said that it is very difficult. And I’m already so exhausted, that I do not want to, hands down. I know many probably now write, saying that young fool, fell in love and got pregnant from such a man, yeah, you’re right. It was necessary to flee from such, and to protect themselves. But the only thing I regret is that I now heartbeat. I continue to learn, and not going to leave (left last year). I have the support in the face of my mother, relatives.
There are tools that the child in no way needed. Therefore I thought about abortion I quickly left. But why am I writing all this, suddenly someone was in a similar situation, or anyone has stories from friends who like to collect will in a fist, and walk away from the man, starting life anew? I love him very much, but the child to me much more, and for me the priority is his health, comfort and tranquility. I’m also very worried about the fact that his son will grow up without a father. I kind of didn’t want, can’t give those men the tips and lessons that needed the boy. Please share your opinions with me, important for me to read.